Can my mother and grandmother sign over my 7 year old cousin to me?

Hire an attorney to help you do this correctly.

Is it mandatory that the STIPULATION AND WAIVER OF FINAL DECLARATION OF DISCLOSURE to be submitted to finalize my divorce?

Judgement will not be entered unless you have the waiver signed by both parties.

How do I reverse a custody order to get equal custody of my daughter and is there anything that would prohibit me from that?

File a Request for Order to Modify parenting time. In your paperwork give an in depth explanation as to why you accepted your current limited...

My question is "is their way for my girlfriend to get custody of her sisters kids" and or how to start the process..

I agree with counsel below. Call CPS. They can move fast to protect the children.

Can my wife take the kids to Texas with the intent on not coming back?

Is she leaving you and the relationship? If so, you need to jump in this fast. File for a divorce in SD which will prevent her from leaving...

You MUST show up or your TRO will expire. When you appear let the court know you've been unable to serve him and they will reissue the TRO. You...

Weekend parenting time

Monday would not be considered the weekend. You should have a holiday schedule that divides the holidays. If the current court order is...

Do other parent need not pay child support when my teen kid refuses (not at the fault of other parent) to see her? Case laws?

Any support order in in effect until modified by court order. It does not matter that the child refuses to see her.

What happens to my living trust after divorced in California?

The trust is still in effect BUT you need to rescind it and prepare a new trust. Seek the assistance of an estate planning attorney.

Do I NEED a lawyer for this

This is a long term marriage and there may be a lot at stake. You should hire a family law attorney.