On form FL 341 my spouse was granted physical custody and both have legal custody of our son. I have every other weekend visits.

You need to find a lawyer and file something immediately. You should have filed as soon as he told you he was leaving.

Child support and payments. They garnish my check after I mail in payments.

If there is a wage assignment in place, stop making any payments. The person receiving support is always entitled to a wage assignment if they...

If you can prove that he is not using his custody time for extended periods of time, then a modification is appropriate. You should probably find...

It sounds like you need to retain counsel since you are using legal terms incorrectly. You can't file a contempt against him since he is not a...

In CA what elements are needed for a Domestic Violence Restraining Order?

That sounds like a threat to me. Make sure you screenshot those texts and add them to your TRO paperwork. The elements of a TRO are pretty open....

Can she say she never got served

If DCSS filed proof of service that says they mailed it to the address they had on file that should be adequate.

How do I fight my ex wife saying I owe back child support?

You will need to file a Request for Orders to get this clarified by the court. The fact that she has not filed anything for three years and the...

How can I get child support adjusted while I wait for my next hearing?

The judge will not revisit it until January. However, in January it will be retroactive to the first day of the month after you filed your RFO.

What chance do I have in having the physical custody altered to reduce his time to every other Th thru Sunday during school yr?

You will need to file a Request for Orders and let the court know about this change in his residence. It sounds like this is enough to prompt a...

What's the likeliness to get the (CA) court/mediation to agree w/ leaving the custody as is as our 4 year old is adjusted to it?

Given his work schedule, it seems unlikely that a mediator would give him what he wants but you should really get an attorney to help since once an...