I've married for 9 years and 8 months but lived with him engaged for two years plus Years prior

As in prior answer, a big no... please get a consultation with an experienced family law attorney.

Can my wife take our money and my car and our son if I separate from her ?

Too complicated to answer quickly, but call an attorney to get,a consultation on your rights..

I want to get a divorce, but my wife lives in California and I live overseas. How should I proceed?

Only one party needs to live in California to file in Cakifornia. It appears that your spouse can file in Ca. Or you can, or you might be able to...

I need a divorce lawyer for my mother

Yes, it sounds messy. The only way things really get solved is if the parties sit down,talk,and reach a compromise. And there is no guarantee that...

I'd like to file for divorce. It was started in 2001 but never finalized. Do I start over? What reason do I put?

If the original divorce was not dismissed by the court due to inaction of the parties, you may use the same case number to finalize. Be aware that...

Should I accept my ex's offer and settle out of court?

Insufficient information to answer your question. Get a consultation with an attorney who can review the agreement and hear all the facts of your...

When will the spousal support ends?(No kids involved)

If there is an order for support, file a motion to modify or terminate. Get a consultation with an attorney.

Yes....you can re-file anytime after the dismissal..if you pay another filing fee..

Divorce - Summary Dissolution eligible !

Based on your info provided,there still may be community property issues.....were community funds, as in her income, used to pay for mortgage,...

I agree with first answer and also that it is best to have the forms prepared by a legal professional...