How can I get my personal belongings back from someone?

This post was under the topic of civil rights which is why no one saw it. I hope you are alright. Have you located him?

Consequences for breaking a court order?

If I understand correctly, you are the protected party. You did not violate the order. She did.

If someone filed a restraining order on you but did not serve you but filed it with the courts is it still valid

You have to be served with the order for it to be in effect.

I would like to hire surveillance person to film my sons absent dad because of his lifestyle so that I could ask r sole custody

Talk to a private investigator, or hire a family law attorney who uses private investigators.

Charges Stemming From A false Police report?

Honestly this post is confusing. You are being charged with a felony. You need representation NOW.

Is it a restraining order violation or not?

Honestly, I would have to read the order. I assume this is a DVRO and no Criminal Protective Order is in effect. It sounds like she lives in a...

WHAT DO I DO IF NEIGHBOR IS VIDEO AND AUDIO TAPING ME IN MY OWN APT.?

Call the police and file a report. This violates PC 631 and 632.

Bed bug treatment charge $4700. Do i have a case?

Did your neighbors have bed bugs too? Is there evidence that your were in some way negligent or contributed to the bed bugs? Were the bed bugs...

You can sue them in small claims court. First send a demand letter.

How should we proceed? What kind of lawyer do we need for this situation?

Send a demand letter and then file in small claims.