Can the county come after me for a ticket my ex BF got driving my car 10+ years ago?

You can try to put this back on calendar. Go to the San Mateo County Law Library and ask if they can help you with this. The Traffic Court has...

What can i do now?

You can file for a restraining order. Also get a copy of the police report and see if it will be helpful in small claims or elsewhere.

Can I get a restraining order against someone who hasn’t shown any violence?

Domestic violence does not need to be physically violent in order for a restraining order to be granted. I would have a lawyer help you articulate...

What defense does my does my son have with having a mental health, PTSD,ADHD, IEP in school issue that has not been addressed?

I agree with the above answer. This is simply too complex a matter to be advised on Avvo. Your son needs a lawyer, ASAP.

Can someone kick you out and report their car stolen because you were scared for your safety to take the vehicle back to them ?

Preserve the threatening text messages, and "google" legal aid organizations that provide free help with restraining orders. A person who treats...

First, I would not say anything in the Family Law DVRO proceeding until I was absolutely sure that a criminal case will not be filed. She filed a...

I agree with the above answers. I will add that by sending an email the attorney is bolstering the "willful disobedience" element of proving...

How can I find out what a warrant is for?

I would call a bail bondsman and ask them to run a "warrant check." Most perform this service for free.

It appears you were illegally towed. Unless you were parked in a handicapped space or within some other exception to the rule. You can call the...

What will happen to this person?

With out more information I doubt anything will happen to this person. Were the police called, was a report filed on her?