How long does a misdemeanor stay on your background?

Convictions do not just disappear. You can file a 1203.4 motion which has some benefits but will not erase anything on your record.

You should file a domestic violence restraining order (DVRO). Domestic violence is not just physical.

Do i need to pay the civil demand notice? and if not how long will they keep sending notices

My advice...do not pay it. Copy and paste: https://www.avvo.com/legal-guides/ugc/shoplifting-demand-letters-in-san-mateo-county

Is it legal for Walmart to use a scanner to scan a paid receipt,upon exiting the store?

Yes, it is legal. ________________________________________________________________________________

My niece shoplifted at kohls on July 2018. He already received 3 lettlers from a law firm, how many letters he will get?

Usually three to four. Then they stop trying.

How much force can a loss prevention officer in California use to detain you

Questions like this get asked frequently. They require a review of all the facts and cannot be easily answer on a forum like this.

DDo lawyers do free warrant checks?

I agree. Most bail bondsman do warrant checks for free. Many attorneys charge.

Is a text message with minimal info acceptable for a restraining order and how do I find out if service has been accepted?

You were not personally served. So no, this does not count as service. You could, based on the information above, file a restraining order on her.

Help

Based on this post you are the victim of extortion.

Live Scan and Expunged Convictions?

The live scan will show the conviction and that is was later set aside under Penal Code 1203.4. For most employers that is sufficient.