What are my options with my ex husband breaking THE ARO OF CALIFORNIA, cancelling all insurances to include health and auto?

I'm guessing ARO is automatic restraining orders. The restraining orders prevent him from among other things taking you off insurance policies. ...

Can my wife and I agree on an uneven division of my pension if we're doing a QDRO?

If this is being done to equalize the division of property remember that retirement assets are not as valuable as the same amount of cash from a...

I had financially supported my old parents abroad to provide sustenance, medical and house repairs

On the other hand you may not have to pay your spouse back. Spending money to give gifts to relatives does not create a duty to reimburse in low...

If you deliberately did not request spousal support, I believe you could waive spousal support in your proposed judgment and not have to refile the...

F141 states options for waiving the current income and expense declaration (question #4abc please explain) ?

If you want any property or support you will need to serve him with the disclosure documents, even though he defaulted. You will also need the...

Maybe just the threat of taking him back to court will be enough. After all it's likely that sooner or later he's going to need your help with the...

Where do I file for divorce

If you like, there are several books from Nolo Press that are designed to help people get through a California divorce. If you look around, you...

Can my daughter stay with me?

You may be charged with kidnapping and you may end up in federal court in a case under the Hague Convention. But it would be a good idea to find...

Can I transfer my court ordered DV classes to Los Angeles County?

You can contact the court in Alameda County to find out how to transfer your classes to the Los Angeles area. The case will remain in Alameda...

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If the court does not have my divorce decree from 19 years ago

There are several possibilities: You may be using the wrong name or case number to look for your case (a clerk may be able to help or you may be...