My kids step-mother smacked my 14 year old autistic son in the face and pushed him out of the house. In violation of court order

You should consult with a lawyer. If the step mother is violating a court order, you may want to pursue an ex parte request for custody. There...

Is it okay for my exes girlfriend to "throw him on the bed" and spank my son?

You need to consult with a lawyer. You have many issues that could be present.

Is it safer to hire a private lawyer with 4 288 criminal cases? will the results be faster?

Not sure what you mean be safer? Are you trying to make a comparison between hiring a private attorney and whether to be represented by the Public...

Child endangerment question?

You should consult with a Family Law attorney. This is a technical question and has many issues and considerations. An answer on this website...

Consult with a Family Law attorney.

How can I change family court order

To change a family court order, you need to file a Request for Order. However, it appears that you disagree with a recommendation from a mediator....

In California are there any circumstances where there would not be a 50/50 split of assets?

There are very limited exceptions to 50/50 split of assets. You should discuss this with an attorney independent of this website. The "why" part...

My ex husband is in contempt of court for spousal support. What can i do?

File a Request for Order.

If I have full custody over my child do I have control over who my child will go to after I pass?

No. You cannot gift or will your children to another person upon your passing. Children are not property. You should discuss with who you would...

Plaintiff did not call defendant to appear in court for a motion. Then, next day Plaintiff "won" with a court call to court!

Consult with an attorney. Civil procedures like most areas of law are very technical and have specific procedures for either reconsideration or...