In California, what types of assets are spouses automatically primary beneficiaries?

I agree that consultation with an attorney is recommended. This is a tricky area and a lot is at stake for you. The most secure method to...

I cannot tell from your question whether you have counsel. If not, the response depends heavily on the lawyer's reason for inability to be present...

Separated for 5 years and not able to petition for spousal or child support before now. Is it too late to get back support?

Generally, you cannot obtain an order for "back support" prior to the date of filing your Petition for Dissolution of Marriage and in some cases...

Because this was a court order with a review of the evidence by the court, you would need solid proof of something like perjury or evidence...

Can I ask the judge to adjust the child support because mother refuses to work?

The other 2 answers to this question are appropriate to describe the procedure. What is necessary is a review and assessment by an attorney as to...

Yes, unless there is some reason why hiring a sibling would be detrimental to the trust. The executor or trustee usually has broad authority to...

Spousal support modification?

A material change in income can be the basis for a support modification. Given that you are merely 2 or 3 months from your legal separation date...

Can I take an ex-spouse to court to claim alimony?

Your situation requires a consultation with an attorney to review the documentation. It is unclear whether you signed a marital settlement...

Ex spouse refuses to acknowledge court ordered schedule - how would a judge look at my behavior if I call the sheriff?

Generally it is not a good idea to "call the cops". I cannot tell from your description what you are referencing about a "court ordered schedule"....

Can the Judge REQUIRE that my son's father attend or participate in these weekend activities rather than deny them to my child?

There is no clear answer to this question. This would be a purely discretionary decision of the court. If you have not done so, I would suggest...