In CA if I amend my already filed "legal separation" to "Divorce" does the 30 day response window for the Respondent star over?

The 30 day window would restart since you are amending the Petition. She has a right to be noticed you are changing this to a divorce. As far as...

IS THIS leagle???? how do I get this dropped

From the facts you give I don't see how she would get visitation. You need to contact an attorney in your area so he/she may review everything. If...

Neither children or pets are a determining factor when it comes to spousal support. Temporary support can be ordered based on the disso master...

What papers do i file to sue my absent father for child support now that im 42 and i just found him.

Was there a child support order in place? If so then it would be your mother who would go after the arrears.

Need to take children into full custody temporarily until mother finds suitable residence.

You need to file an ex-parte (emergency request for order) Go to self help or retain an attorney to help you with this. Ex-parte are procedure driven.

Can an opposing lawyer contact my AA Sponsor to check up on me? For a compliance hearing. HE DID!

The attorney is doing his job, which is act int he best interest of his client. Attorneys often contact outside sources.

How do I go back to court to enforce the 50% college tuition payment the father should have been contributing up to now?

There are a couple of avenues you can take. Either one you do make sure you have provided him proof of the amount owed. 1. Contempt -...

Will I be able to get fully custody without child support?

I'm assuming you are saying since he does not pay child support can you get (and I don't know what you mean by full custody) full custody. Custody...

Can I appeal a Restraining Order decision that was granted against me in Alameda County?

You do not state when the RO was issued. There are time limits for Motions for Reconsideration and Appeals. I would suggest you contact an attorney...

My wife filed a restraining order against me , and used my bank account after she filled Restraining order, would she be b

You are still married therefore your wife is authorized to use community funds to care for herself and the children (necessities of life).