My ex won't let me talk to my daughter. What are my options?

You should absolutely document your efforts and her responses, including not answering the phone, unreturned messages, hanging up on you, telling...

My wife has filed head of household single although married for fifteen years

That is a question for an accountant, or a tax attorney, not a family law attorney.

My neice 13 gaurdianship with aunt, not allowed to see any family they are mean she wants out how can I get her

You can Petition the court to be her guardian. Because she is over 12, she can even be the Petitioner.

OSC Vs Status conference to set case for trial in the family court in a divorce case

Yes. The judge will determine which matter is dealt with first.

A CA judge issued an order saying that no one is allowed to spank my son, is this legal?

Yes, it is very common for a judge to make an order that there be no corporal punishment used to discipline a child.

Where can I find a divorce attorney to represent me pro bono or take my case contingent on divorce settlement?

Family law attorneys are not allowed to take cases on contingency. You may be able to find a lawyer to take your case pro bono through Legal Aid...

I am In Pro Per. If an attornye is representing me just for one TRO hearing, do I still have to file a substitution of attorney?

Yes. There is a form that you can complete indicating the attorney is only representing you for that 1 matter

You could file a Request for Order that the dog go with the boys.

My ex + I have 2 marriage licenses in NV. We are now divorced w/ 1 dissolution of marriage. Does that dissolve both licenses?

Yes. You were only married once, a wedding is just a celebration.

Response with Motion to set aside default question

Yes, you need to provide a Response so that in the event your set aside request is granted the Response can be filed.