My ex has CC'd my 14 year old daughter on e-mails involving finances and travel. What can I do?

That was clearly a violation of the terms of the order. Contempt can be a bit tricky though, you should consult with a lawyer in your area to see...

To join the plan administrator to your dissolution of marriage to allow retirement plans to be divided.

My husband offered me a large sum of cash and said he would assume all debts in exchange for me giving him full custody.

Settlement offers are not admissible in court.

Can I file for divorce and custody if I have a domestic violence restraining order against me?

You can of course file for divorce however there is a presumption against you getting custody due to the domestic violence finding.

What do i do if the commissioner never signed an order for the parenting plan when she approved the temp order to relocate?

Call the clerk of the court and follow up on your paperwork.

Do i need a lawyer

You probably need to file some additional paperwork. Divorces do not finalize on their own.

What happens if divorce papers do not get turned into the court on time?

The other side can request that the court enter a default judgment against you.

Can a girlfriend make a common-law wife claim on my Trust?

there is no common law marriage in california

Now that I have filed a Stipulated Agreement with the courts can I open a savings account in my own name and transfer money.

Yes

Husband just got a job and refuses to pay any bills, what can I do?

There is nothing you can do unless you file for divorce. Then the court can make orders regarding finances.