What are my opinions if I am not able to make it to my traffic court date?

Contact an attorney in VA to appear for you.

I didnt not completely community hours ordered by court but I want to ask for an extension.. how do I ask for one,

"Your honor, may I please have more time to complete the community service that I have not yet completed?"

It could be considered vandalism--which is a crime.

My bf has a felony probation violation, he isn't allowed to post bail he's been locked up for 8 months. How can he bail out?

As you stated, he cannot bail out.

It just means the police have yet to submit their report to the DA. DMV consequences loom regardless so you need to at least consult with a local...

What to do about lying to authority about possession of firearm as a minor?

This is rather difficult to follow, but whoever is charged with a crime here needs a good criminal defense attorney. You can't resolve this by...

If my friend turns 18 in March the girl he’s talking too turns 16 in March. Do the Romeo Juliet laws protect him?

There are no "Romeo and Juliet" laws in CA. Where did you hear about that?

I want to know what are my chaces of winning a case from a person who socked me ?

Impossible to predict any outcome. Nice friend...

I was arrested and the DA refused to prosecute me but the tow fees are too high to retrieve my car. what can I do?

What can you do? Nothing. If you don't pay the tow fees, they'll auction off your car in short order.

I got a wet and reckless about 5 year ago

Fascinating. Did you have a question or did you just want to get that off your chest?