Can my wife still file my petition for green card if she can’t find her divorce certificate?

Editing practice area to "immigration." None of this sounds good though...

Does one always have to be conscious of what they are doing to have criminal intent?

It depends. This a complex question, not susceptible to a meaningful answer online. Suggest a private/confidential consultation with an attorney...

Vinelink may not be that accurate. Call the facility directly. Being "released" actually takes awhile.

How do I file charges on my neighbor for trespassing vandalism and theft and filing false police reports along with harassment ?

Individuals don't file charges on anybody. Only the DA can file criminal charges. Begin by making a police report.

Probably. You'll have to go see the judge and ask nicely though.

Having a 314 PC misdemeanor and went back to my country is the case going to be dismissed?

I really suggest that you speak to YOUR LAWYER.

Police refused to release police report because it was domestic violence they said, but charges are filed electronically

The police reports will be provided to the defendant's attorney.

Sorry about your troubles, but there's nothing a law suit will accomplish.

Your grandson has many problems. That's what it means.

How can I get my ex boyfriend out of my apartment, with no money?

You may have to formally evict him, move out yourself, or seek a DV Restraining Order and request a "kick out" order.