Criminal cases, in general, have priority over civil cases.

Are soup kitchens and or shelters exempt from restraining orders?

Neither soup kitchens nor shelters are "exempt." The R.O. specifies staying away from a specific person regardless of where they/you are.

Can I file for a commutation of sentence for my loved one or is he the only person who can?

With respect, nobody really cares about your opinion of the sentence. If you must, consider contacting your loved one's attorney. Perhaps a...

It won't be easy. Technically speaking, the JUDGE placed the CPO at the DA's request. They think you need to be protected from b/f and...

Is a PLAINTIFF violating any laws by dismissing their case to avoid an unexpected trial by jury?

Where's your attorney in all of this? You can't force a plaintiff to trial....

The Public Defender will help you with the case. Paying back (over time) the benefits you essentially, I mean allegedly, stole will have an...

What should I do ?

Ask somebody to correct the spelling.

What happens if i settle my case and the 30 days pas and i dont get my check?

You need to ask your lawyer about this. We don’t even know what type of case you have/had.

Does my friend have to the pay civil demand letter from Kohl’s if LP called cops and can he get charges dropped?

IGNORE the civil demand. QUIT STEALING

Interesting story. You need to hire a good criminal defense attorney.