Can a misdemeanor give me a second strike ? or is it the felony that gives a person a new strike?

No. Only certain felonies are considered strikes.

Can I drop charges of domestic violence?

No, you cannot "drop" the charges. The prosecutor is in control now.

I suppose you could ask for a refund, but just because you didn't get the desired result, doesn't mean you're owed a refund.

Is tax deduction for legal fee related to "related to doing or keeping your job" in form 529 possible?

This is an issue for your CPA. It's technically not a legal question.

San Diego City and parking tickets?

Your best option at this point is to pay whatever you owe.

You filed a law suit and now don't know what to do? Time to hire a lawyer!

What do I need to do to get a record expunged that happened 15 years ago?

You'll need to file a PC1203.4 Petition for Dismissal and even if granted, you must still disclose the conviction when applying for any state...

Angry wife exposed private emails to my husband, is that invasion of privacy?

You should let it go..................

Can I sue for an officer making false accusations, in which my boyfriend ended getting arrested?

You can't sue the officer but perhaps you should demand some compensation from whoever made the 911 call. Good luck with that...

Can I retire charges against someone ?

No, you cannot "retire" the charges and your version of events seems a little odd...