What if I stop my contact with person that put a restraining order on me.And brings it up in court after a month can I argue on

Since you admitted to violating the restraining order I wouldn't make any argument but explain the violation or apologize for it. Whether you get...

Can the father be charged with contempt? can i use that as a basis of modification?

Filing for contempt will not be very helpful. In fact, it might delay any request to modify the custody order, which you may want to try filing.

Can I retain copies of reports to prove I completed if client disputes?

There may be laws that impose a duty of an accountant or CPA to retain records. It could be 3-7 years. You should refer to the laws in your area.

Can a TRO that was never served be used later in another case even though he is the plaintiff and not the defendant this time?

The fact that you filed a TRO may or may not be relevant. However, there may be allegations that you made which could support your step dad's case.

How long after default judgment date do you have to file a vacate a default judgment ?

Because so much time has passed and the default judgment could potentially be based upon fraud, you should consult with an attorney to try to set...

How bad is this

Your story is hard to follow. But it sounds like you need to consult with another attorney about what to do next.

It's possible that your husband has not been properly served especially since the process server took the subpoena back. However, the process...

Your wife as a new plaintiff with her own cause of action is entitled to propound her own discovery.

Seeking alimony how long is the process and I am entitled to it correct?

Yes you'll likely be able get spousal support on a temporary basis. I suggest you consult with a divorce attorney to protect your rights.

Will child support cases be combined ?

If you receive an order to receive child support it will start around the time that you filed the request for child support. If you owed child...