Can I serve custody declaration in court?

Ask the judge to have the bailiff serve the opposing party. Any person over the age of 18 who is not party to the custody proceeding can serve him.

Can my current wife bring gentleman around our son ?

Yes, she can have other men around. Unless there is a grounded belief that the other man poses a risk to your child's health, safety and welfare,...

Does the wife or husband get Christmas Eve to Day 2017.  Same question for Dec 31st 2017 (NY Eve) to Jan 1st 2018 (NY Day)?

Based on the order you quote, dad would have both holidays this year (2017). While it is the "intent" that each party have one holiday, the clear...

Child custody and visitation

I agree with my colleagues. If it is a reoccurring problem you can seek orders giving you specific times which would be enforceable. If CP...

This would depend on the age and maturity of your children. Kids are perceptive and they pick up on tensions in these situations. Remember not to...

Are these grounds to requesting custody modification?

A judge will not care if your children eat eggos for breakfast. The court will be concerned if dad's laziness is causing the children to miss or be...

How can we move from LA to Portland?

You will need to file a Request for Order and get the court's blessing on the move. California looks to the following factors in move away cases:...

Will I benefit from accepting 63% of my ex's 401k and agree to nothing from his Shell Oil pension?

I agree with Ms. Straus. Additionally, you need to consider the amounts at present value, and the tax implications from your choice. Taking 63% of...

This depends whether the judge took the matter under submission, and whether the judge will issue his ruling in writing or if another hearing is...

Can I be ordered to pay child support if I've been out of work for 8 years and am now too sick to work?

Each parent has a duty to support their child(rem). Nonpayment of child support would require the court to find that you cannot work. Otherwise,...