Do you have to go before a judge in order for a divorce to be finalized?

No

Can I sue my husband for breach of contract if he is having an affair & purchased a vehicle with her? Not ready for divorce!

may be for breach of fiduciary duty; I am not familiar if you can do that outside a divorce case.

Whats my right to this house

More complicated than it sounds; if you prove transmutation then it is yours. you need an attorney to figure this one out.

Can I get an uncontested divorce?

Did the other party file preliminary declaration of disclosure? if yes then file a memorandum to set a trial and if not then you need to file an...

Is spousal abandonment recognized in CA.?

No; no spousal abandonment in CA

Not required but you can use it as guidance to write your own settlement agreement

Deceased Spouse's Credit Card Debt

If your name is on the card as well, then you are responsible; if not then they have to go to court to assert their rights to collect the debt from...

Stepparent adoption

File for adoption and a petition to terminate the father's parental rights and dispense with the notice. You will need a affidavit of due...

I have tried moving my son to Texas with me but failed.What if I think that the decision was wrong? Is there still a chance?

You have not mentioned how old your son is and what is his preference. At this juncture and after being denied the move-away, I believe it may be...

I need help closing my divorce case that is in default. I have the papers but want to make sure I'm filling them out correctly.

I think the self-help center is a great resource for your situation; you can also call Los Angeles bar association