I have primary custody and want to move out of state.

You have a presumptive right to move. However, you can always file an RFO to request a move away.

Do I need to file child abandonment or for child custody?

You should file a paternity action in order to establish your custodial rights. Since you do not know where he is, you can serve him by publication.

What is a judgment for paternity?

A judgment of paternity is a judgment naming you as the parent of the child. With that comes responsibilities such as child support, etc.

How long it takes varies case to case . CPS is child protective services. DCFS is department of department of child and family services.

Violation of custody and visitation orders?

It all depends on what the order states. If you can bring a family member, then it seems that is not a violation.

How do I go about filing for a divorce in CA when I live in CO? Do I need to do it in person?

You need to hire an attorney and the attorney can file and summons and Petition on your behalf. You may need to be present at the time of trial or...

What are grounds for atty fees being awarded (paid by the other) in family law?

The fees under the DVPA (Domestic Violence Prevention Act) are usually awarded to the prevailing party. Since the RO was granted then the judge...

In a divorce in CA, splitting the proceeds from the sale of a house, does it matter who put the down payment on it originally?

If the down payment came from separate property funds (before the marriage or inheritance) then the party who puts the down payment gets reimbursed...

I live in Colorado, my estranged husband lives in CA. Can I file for divorce in CA?

Yes you can provided that your husband has been a resident of CA for the past six months and resident of the county for the past three months.

Divorce

I am assuming you are leaving CA to another state and asking whether you can get a divorce in another state. I am also assuming you have no...