I agree with my colleague, you can request a payment plan.

Is there anything I can do to get access to our car?

You have two options: 1. Either file ex parte demanding the return of the car; this is a weak option and depending on the judicial officer it may...

If i go to court because my ex has not paid some of the bills that he was supposed to from our divorce. do I have to prove it?

As the moving party, you need to prove your case.

I need to find out how to finish a divorce.

The cost depends on how complicated the judgment is; i.e. child custody issues, child support, spousal support, etc. There are plenty of attorneys...

Can someone tell me what " Declaration-Serv Pre Dec Dis Inc" means.

It refers to the default and the declaration regarding service of the preliminary declaration of disclosures.

I was in a abusive relationship & want my divorce after 21 yrs of marriage ..

I agree with my colleague. As long as you show that you have tried to locate him and cannot, a court will typically allow you to serve him by...

How much spouse alimony will I be required to give and what will happen with our house?

Spousal support depends on a number of factors such as marital standard of living, incomes, health, age, etc. You may be responsible for spousal...

Can I be forced to do this?

Get this is writing and file the stipulation with the court.

Ex wife wont let me see my son despite court orders

Do not stop support payments as "leverage." You could always file contempt against the mother for violation of court orders. However, I recommend...

What are the consequences for my sons father and myself if, he takes me back to court in an attempt to modify custody?

He must show a change of circumstances warranting the change in custody. Judges do look at the status quo when making custody orders. However, if...