I want to know how my marriage is legal when my Husband is an illegal and lied about everything. He lied about everything.

Well if the marriage license is not valid, you are technically not legally married. Consult with an experienced family law attorney.

How do I get divorced in the US if I´m now living in Brazil?

You can file in Massachussets. Neither of you are residents of CA and, as such, CA does not have jurisdiction.

In a divorce settlement, is it better to get 401k money or pension money?

We would need more facts to answer this question properly.

My ex-wife was given full custody of my daughter as a result of protective order against me that forbids any contact with both

Yes, you need to file a Request for Order (Fl-300 form).

What would warrant a change in custody?

Change of custody requires change of circumstances. It is fact specific to each case. Consult with an experienced family law attorney.

Making a change in a restraining order?

I agree. File a stipulation with the court.

send a notice of requirement for him to serve and file the documents and if he does not respond, file a motion to compel with request for...

If child or spousal support are not issues for the default, then you do not need to file an updated FL-150. However, if you are requesting support...

TRO

If your child is a protected person under the TRO, he cannot be near her.

With your preliminary declaration of disclosure you can submit either an fl-160 or fl-142. Typically in Form Interrgatories, the only side will be...