Do I need an attorney?

If you were threatened with physical harm, report it to the police and get a restraining order.

What can I do? I want to take legal action but don't know where to start.

How about a visit to Chase bank?

How I go about asking, congressman to change a law

See if you can get a restricted license that allows you to drive only to and from work.

There is no such thing. . .

Is it illegal to sexual role play with a person you are dating and known before you were 18? no nude pictures, just words.

Contributing to the delinquency of a minor.

I created a gmail account for a company I use to work for. The account was tied to my personal email account.

If you used the company computer, yes.

18 year old Canadian woman getting money from 16 year old American teen

Clue the kids parents in.

Why is my name in public people finder search engines if ive never owned property or had a criminal record?

Telephone number, utilities, birth record, parking ticket, drivers license. ....

Not sure what kind of attorney I need I'm just sure I need one.

I don't see what you can sue for, but maybe someone else can think up something.

Will I lose my dog ?

Based upon the facts you relate, the small claims action should go in your favor. Good luck!