Is bullying itself illegal in the United States

The applicable law is found in the First Amendment of the US Constitution.

Can my neighbor spread alarm about my dog being a threat to children?

Freedom of speech. ... dogs can't sue for defamation.

I have filed my for divorced how long before Im actually divorced.

Unless you and/or your spouse moves the case along, you can expect to wait forever, if not longer.

I would take the 500. Sound like you could have the chimney completely re-flashed for that.

That would not be allowed in California. Check state bar rules for Arkansas.

I submitted a bar complaint against my attorneys, 10 days later they filed a lawsuit against me . Is this ethical?

Ethical, but wrong. Did they serve you notice of rights?

Is it legal to request payment for a site that has been completed and waiting on client to send updated content?

Yes, it is legal. If they breached the contract, sue them in small claims court.

Is it malpractice?

Malpractice? No.

Am I responsible for vet bill if my dog bites another dog in a public place where there is a No dogs allowed law?

Your dog did the damage. Pay or turn it over to your homeowners insurance company.

Can a vendor charge a deposit 10 months after they said they would? Pmt info provided in good faith 10 mos ago. Event completed.

If you paid in full, and the event is completed, there is no need for a deposit. Dispute the charge with your credit card company.