That certainly appears to be a clear conflict of interest and outside of the parameters of minors counsel to advise on spousal support and you...

Well if you have been separated for 31 years you certainly have no interest in a new house.Check the filings in the county he lived in all those...

If you divorced 20 years ago and the retirement was divided at that time or was reserved she is entitled to one half the community share of the...

MIsdameanor if no prior record can be diverted with no conviction or arrest record at completion

If relatives did not have Letters of Administration or other permission to withdraw deceased relatives funds then they possibly are committing...

Probably not since she is now deceased but I advise taking the judgment to an attorney to review and get a more definitive answer

If he has left he obviously would not be exercising any rights.Of course if you seek child support then a finding of Paternity would be necessary...

I do not know what you mean by let go of your background? If you were arrested or charged with a crime that arrest or charge stays on your record...

You do not mention if your husband has an attorney representing him.That could be a distinct disadvantage if he doesn't have one.

You would need to file a Guardianship Petition in the probate court best to seek Legal help in that regard