Politely ask the judge for further expalnation

Your choices are leave her,go to marriage therapy,or call the cops.You also could request a Restraining Order if you want her to leave.

Continue to acumulate evidence and you present it either to your attorney for negotiation purposes,or present it to the court as evidence on a...

As in everything the court will act in the "best interest of the children" You will need to file a Request for Order asking for a "Move Away" along...

Hire an attorney you should be eligible for diversion which would wipe the arrest off your record

You either hire a Criminal Defense attorney to go to court on your behalf and recall the warrant ,or show up yourself to the Clerks office...

Of course they can the facts of your Criminal DV case act as history of DV for purposes of raising the presumption under 3044 of the Family Code...

It doesn't matter one way or the other all parents have rights if they assert them by filing the appropriate paperwork

I guess you or your attorney would point out the contradiction between the two

Sounds like a new search means a new search warrant