More information is needed. Speak with a local attorney.

The use of profanity as an excuse not to pay? Likely not [more information is needed]. Speak with a local attorney.

It's called un-insured motorist coverage, and you likely have it as California insurers must offer it [though the coverage is not mandatory].

There are only few male family law attorneys in San Bernardino. I know, because I'm one of them.

It sounds like you'll have a trial over the disputed claims. Hire an attorney and fight.

On those facts, I'd demand a jury trial should they try to evict you. Leases generally allow for inspection upon notice, but multiple inspections...

Civil litigation attorney, though it will likely be a small claims issue.

Sounds like an issue that will need to be litigated. Speak with a local attorney.

Did you pay for the food? It doesn't sound like it.

You don't use a subpoena to request answers, documents, etc. of a party. Discovery cut-off is a problem. Speak with a local attorney.