My ex husband has taken our childs phone because he stands up for himself and tells his dad to stop starting fights with his mom

There are a lot of issues and underlying causes. Your facts are somewhat superficial.

I have an existing custody judgement. I wish to alter it. Can summons be mailed instead of served personally?

Mail the Request for Orders to his current address and sign a verification that the address is current.

Can a rock band from California, USA legally tour UK and Europe and get paid without any form of visa's etc?

You need the proper visas to travel and work in a foreign country.

How do I go about signing my rights over when my ex and I are in different states?

You cannot terminate your rights as a parent and duties to support the child unless there is another parent assuming the responsibilities. A...

Vehicle repo after judgement awarded

Consider applying for a partial satisfaction of judgement due to the partial recovery obtained by the creditor.

I just came home & my partner has been drinking for 7 days & is incoherent! What are MY rights??

Either he is 5150'd (committed for a minimum of 72 hrs for evaluation for being a "danger to himself or others" or "gravely disabled" ) or he goes...

Use of alcohol and drugs, leaving the minor with third parties for 24 hrs. This is a reason to modify custody.

What are the laws for emancipating a minor in California??

http://www.courts.ca.gov/selfhelp-emancipation.htm

Can an apartment complex be held liable for negligence?

There should be a police report if a crime occurred.

My husband's son is 5yrs old would like to spend more time with us now. (more than court order) is it helpful to keep a record?

Yes, it is beneficial to keep a record of visits. A diary or journal is hearsay but may aid your memory. A record of dates of ideally will have...