I cannot afford to pay fines equaling 14,000$ I get 815$ from SSA. Can I make small payments each month?

Some of what you're calling 'fines' may not be. Court fines and penalties and restitution are not dischargeable in bankruptcy but other charges...

another option ... initiate bona-fide loan modification proceedings

Our mortgage was discharged back in 2011 as part of a Ch 7 Bankruptcy...what options do we have for moving out by July 2018?

The most "economic" way to "move forward" would be to stop paying on the discharged mortgage and offer a Deed in lieu of Foreclosure to Deutsche Bank.

Can I send an adjournment letter to family court (child support modification)?

In an extreme emergency, where neither you nor anyone else can appear on your behalf, you may write a letter to the court. You must explain your...

What to do about the taxes on IRA investment?

See my answer to the identical question under Bankruptcy

Service provider failed to apply mortgage payments to the account that was paid through court?

The court can order whatever is appropriate. I assume you meant to say you are 'again' (rather than 'still') in chapter 13 and that the...

What do I do with this situation as far as taxes and payments?

If you are prepared to surrender the condo, then you can do that and the taxes (and, probably, the loan) would not have to be paid. But it sounds...

Your insurance will be cancelled for non-payment of premium, whether you file BK or not).

Can court grant eviction only tenant (wife) while tenant husband in chap 13?

No ... the co-debtor stay (in Ch13) protects the Wife as well as the Husband. Unfortunately, the stay can be lifted (against both) relatively...

Will filing for bankruptcy prevent utility disconnections such as power and water?

A BK will prevent disconnection, and you will be discharged of whatever you owed on the date of filing ... but you must pay a new deposit (or other...