Can either party have an attorney speak on their behalf at the TRO hearing in California? We're in San Diego County.

Attorney representation is both permitted, and highly recommended, as the hearing on the permanent restraining order is a trial.

I somehow forgot to file an FL 141 when I originally filed my preliminary declaration of disclosure!

File it now and indicate that you have served the preliminary. If you ever serve the final (usually it is waived), then you will file it again and...

Is it a violation to not share day care expenses if the minute order does not specify anything on supplemental child support

This is a mandatory add-on by statute, Fam.C§4062, for childcare that allows the parent to work. You should make a demand for reimbursement of...

Can someone get a civil harassment restraining order against me for attempting to get dvro restraining orders against them?

It would depend on how you are attempting. Also, one of you is wrong, since it will be either a DVRO, or a CHRO. If the appropriate relationship...

I received paper work stating my summary dissolution was rejected due to being married longer than 5 years. What do I do next?

File a "regular" dissolution using form FL-100. If you would qualify for a summary dissolution but for the five years of marriage, then your case...

Both you and your wife will need to complete and serve preliminary disclosures, so you should use the FL-142, as opposed to the FL-160. You...

You would use Fam.C§2030. §271 is for sanctions, which may or may not apply.

Your dating relationship makes it domestic violence. The lack of children and not residing together may provide good arguments against a permanent...

How can I get the passcode to my computer when my ex has locked me out through Icloud.

A third party, preferably an attorney that represents you, could contact your ex, only for the purpose of requesting the passcode (not...

Can the victim be charged for violating a no contact order?

No. However, he could face civil or criminal charges. Also, if he wished to have the order vacated, your contacting and meeting with him...