If no judgment was ever entered, you're still married. Check your local courthouse for their Self-Help Center for assistance in filing the request...

If you can't locate your ex, or he's refusing to communicate with you, you'll most likely have to file a motion with the Court to sell or refinance...

Do they get permanent custody if I missed the court date in which I wanted to request for more time in finding a home for my son

I agree- you'll need to get a copy of the minute order from that hearing to figure out what, exactly, happened. If your sister-in-law no longer...

How can I stay in my house?

Here's the good news- you can still get divorced without him signing off on anything. You still also may be entitled to child support and...