In addition to the statements above, you can also arrange to meet her in person in another country where you are not restrictred from visiting

Having an approved I-140 will not help in getting a J1 visa renewed

INA 245(k) is a special provision for employment-based I-485 applicants. Work with an immigration attorney.

If married prior to approval of I-485, spouse can be added as a derivative and "follow to join" application can be filed. Work with an immigration...

Your application will be closed as you are no longer a green card holder. You will not be refunded.

Once the H1B change of employer petition is filed, work at the new H1B employer can commence

If the priority date of the approved petition is not yet "current" there is no need to notify the NVC

Based on the facts, you are eligible for naturalization. Work with an immigration attorney

If H1B status has started even if terminated, an H1B change of employer/transfer can be filed

Foreign nationals who entered on B2 visa and filed an I-485 application based on an I-130 filed by their US citizen child may stay in the US beyond...