Am I responsible for the debt because we were married and should I even write it into the marriage settlement agreement?

As to the issue of whether or not the debt is still viable, I can't give an opinion because there are other facts missing in your post that would...

Are the forms off the judicial council website for Petitions ot Establish Conservatorship to be used in ALL counties in CALIFORN

The judicial council forms are mandatory for this matter in all counties. They are the same for all of California.

What can I do to sell the house and get 50%. What are my options?

What "paperwork" did he show you? That is where I would start my analysis as to what you need to do. Get a copy of the "paperwork" from him or go...

Can I add gifts I want to make to my trust?

Hopefully your trust already made provisions for gifting personal property items to people. But yes you can go and give property to people. BUT...

Can she ask for the equity value of the house even though I purchased it before the marriage yet added her to the deed?

By adding her to the deed you transmuted the house into a CP house as of the date of the deed. You still have a right to be reimbursed for you...

Can I close/transfer funds from a deceased person's account with an INFORMATIONAL copy of death certificate if I am beneficiary?

It is the retirement firms call on this. There is no legal requirement that you get an authorized certified copy to obtain funds being held for...

Validity of marital separation agreement that precedes a divorce decree.

If the divorce judgment was signed by the court, that is the controlling document. The divorce judgment is the document that is enforceable. ...

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Do I have to file a summary dissolution in person? Can i file it via certified mail , since I'm not living in California anymore

In my opinion, you don't meet the requirements for filing as the petition in this matter. BUT your husband can be the petition. I know you said...

I want to seperate from husband but want to stay with kids.. If I leave home with the kids can husband press charges ??

No there are no "charges" to press. But you need to file the divorce papers and then get orders for custody, visitation and support. Along with...

Does the live-in father of my kids have rights to take away my house?

If the two of you were never married, then he has no CP interest in the house under the CA Family Code but he might have what is called a "Marvin"...