How can I transfer the title of my grandmother's property over to mines?

You have no legal means to exercise this right. In order to buy the house from your grandmothers estate, the house would need to be in a probate...

What the paralegal did was to practice law without a license and you could take her/him to small claims court or sue that person for their...

What will happen if you didn't reply to a dissolution of marriage that they serve you?

The worst source for legal advice is a "friend".

Can my soon-to-be ex-wife claim my state disability insurance (SDI) as an income for spousal support purposes ?

Get an attorney. You could have gotten one by now. The lawyer knows what to do. You don't. Make the playing field level.

Do I have to wait until the divorce is final before I go to DMV and the Social Security office to change my name?

In your response you should also request that you want your name changed upon entry of judgment.

Do i qualify for an annulment and how do I start the process? Do i need a lawyer ?

No, based on these facts you don't qualify for an annulment. You probably do qualify for a summary judgment divorce.

When getting divorced if your spouse is the one that needs to leave the household what is the law for when the divorce is final?

Friends are the worst source for "legal" advice. Leaving the house is not the date for finalizing a divorce.

Do I have to send the probate court a copy of the will if everything has already been distributed outside of it?

Did anyone file a petition to probate your aunt's estate? Was the original Will submitted to the court. Technically, none of the beneficiaries...

How many days do you have before you conserve your motion ?

First just because you said Dec 10 doesn't mean the hearing will be scheduled on that date. You must be served no later than 16 days before the...

I am getting unreasonably pressurised by my wife to get the divorce proceedings started here in California and she wants it now.

If you haven't been a legal resident for 6 months prior to filing, then you can't file for divorce her in CA. Why doesn't she file?