It is violation of professional ethics to have a sexual relationship with one's client. Period, regardless of who they are related to or not...

CAN I REQUEST DIVORCE JUDGMENT BE SET ASIDE

Yes you can and there is a way to get it done. File an ex-parte motion.

Is it necessary to file the will with the court? I am not planning to go through probate proceedings.

Yes go ahead and lodge it. Understand that the $150,000 reflects the gross value of the estates assets (don't subtract any liens or other loans.)....

When can I file for spousal support

What he wants is irrelevant. If you want the divorce then file. But kinda curious as to the reasons for you being restrained. Him having "the...

What can I do to make sure that my I751 isn't rejected next year?

Call the Levitt-Quinn foundation to get help pro bono (that means free).

Can I borrow on my 401k to pay community debts and community taxes. The divorce was filed in May.

You would need to either get her approval or a court order allowing you to do so.

What paperwork do I need, (to file within 30 days of receiving my divorce petition papers, to ask for part of his retirement?

You need to file a response and request your share of the estate and retirement. Suggest you hire an attorney in California to properly appear and...

What kind?

You need to hire a probate attorney to help protect your rights and the rights of the estate for your siblings.

Is it better to be a widow or divorced woman?

If a judgment wasn't entered, you are a widow and now the probate court would need to take jurisdiction on the estate issues. You will probably...

My soon to be ex wife is trying to put our home under her mom's name, can she do this?

She can't do this. The consequences are either sanctions and or penalties. But you need help to get this stopped.