I would love to hire a lawyer but my x has all the assets to pay for the retainer,so what can I do?

There is a way to do this an talking to attorney's in your area personally is the way to go.

On form FL100, page 3 question 11, is this the only place I can list the things I want?

No. First this isn't a place to claim things you want. It is the place to claim what is community property and separate property. You need help...

If my wife files for divorce, Am I required to sign?

This is one of the biggest misconceptions about divorce here in CA. In CA, divorce is a no fault matter. Meaning your wife can file for a divorce...

SOMEONE IS CLAIMING ME AS A DEPENDENT ON THEIR TAXES. HOW DO I FIND OUT WHO IS DOING THIS?

Forget about it. You aren't responsible for their actions. Move on.

Who gets the house in a divorce?

The house is community property so each has an equal share in its equity. Decide who will buy the other's share to keep the house OR let the court...

The best advice I can give you is to find a family law attorney to help you. Just because he filed doesn't mean that he got a divorce.

Can my husband get divorce with me after he get his us paper

Yes he could but he still might be ordered to pay you spousal support. You need a family law attorney to help you.

Is an ex-spouse required to show up for a Court hearing that she filed a motion on?

She could make an appearance via court call.

Executor in California probate has used an ineffective void grant deed to pass real property

You allege the deed was invalid but there is no finding by the probate court that it was. At least that is what seems to be case in your facts...

Can a family member purchase the family home below market value if the home was left to the deceased estate to form a charity?

Only if the heirs agree to this or the beneficiaries agree to this. If the matter is in probate court you will probably need probate court...