In a divorce pending 5 yrs agreed w/ default ex wife didn't proceed w/ final judgment so we are still married. How can I proceed

You need to file a request to set aside the default and then proceed with the divorce.

When the only beneficiary of an estate received 1/2 the residuary and the other half went to the charities

The only question you are asking is do the "issue" have standing. It depends on the wording in the Trust if indeed we are talking about a Trust. ...

Why might I be asked to sign a will document if I am not an inheritor?

There is no way any probate attorney here in CA could even begin to answer your question unless (1) we read the German only document and know...

How to request judge to sign QDRO?

File and RFO and get a hearing on this to seek judge to sign it. Notice the other side. It works all the time.

Can i file in California to amend a divorce decree that was finalized in Texas?

No. The Texas court still hold jurisdiction. You need to pursue remedies there. Strongly advise you seek legal assistance on this as you would...

Will a notarized agreement w/o post nupt waive my rights to community assets in court if it states I have no demands from him?

A post nup agreement is presumed not enforceable if indeed there was no full disclosure of assets and debts and you didn't get the right to have it...

Do I need a lawyer for my probate case?

if you don't know what you are looking at and then don't know what to do, then yes you need an attorney.

What are my options if an executor isn't doing his job.

Get an attorney but first, you stated your brother in law is the "executor". Is this a matter of a Trust or a Will or intestacy? You can always...

I don't know. Any spousal support request will be analyzed based upon the factors of FL code section 4320. All facts will be weighed appropriately.

Service by mail or must it be in person service if filed a hearing for violation of domestic restraining order.How do I file?

Since you can't afford an attorney (but you really need one) I suggest you call the Levitt-Quinn foundation in law for help or the Harriet Buhai...