I only been married for 2 months and I want a divorce and I still haven't mailed in my marriage certificate yet.

I would agree with what Ms. Waxman has posted. A filed marriage certificate is not the only proof of a valid and legal marriage here in CA. I...

How can I convince my ex to accept half of my 401k without additional delays?

QDRO for what? You don't need a QDRO to divide a 401K. As to lawyer fees, that isn't part of the assets generally but is a different...

The only "fact" that might get you an annulment is if you can prove that he is your actual father. That would make the marriage illegal on its...

How can I adopt my grandchildren?

It is much easier to get guardianship then to go for an adoption. You need help from an attorney that actually does guardianships.

Division of a pension plan is different then the issue of spousal support. Get help from a family law attorney. I suspect there is more money on...

In a long divorce, we have lived in very unequal homes, would he owe me for his much higher quality of living?

The quality of living is only one of 14 factors to be considered in the award of spousal support. You need help from a family law attorney. Homes...

Can I take my ex military husband back to court And re open our case due to hardship?

Not sure what you are asking. "hardship" is too general and you can't reopen a case. If the divorce reserved the matter of spousal support, then...

What happens when divorce papers served to me signed and returned but never filed because we stayed married?

Unless a judgment was entered, then you are still married. Your husband needs to file a request to have the case dismissed.

Your friend was well intentioned but their advice couldn't have been more incorrect then if I were to tell you that I have a $3 bill that I want to...

Final court date to distribute inheritance is Nov 2017. So when will I probably receive for real my inheritance?

The court doesn't "work on things". That is the job of the administrator.