You need help. Her affair is not grounds for an annulment. And just because you filed doesn't mean it will automatically happen. You could now...

CAn I file legal separation in CA and stop my husband from filing for divorce in WA?

Which state has jurisdiction depend on who serves whom first. What would make you "ready"? If you file for separation, he could then respond here...

What legal options do I have? Do have legal resource against my wife or against the unwanted occupants?

As to your wife, you have a fiduciary duty to make sure the household expenses are paid. It isnt' a contract issue. As to the family, you need to...

If a spouse dies before making a will, do bank accounts in one name go to the living spouse automatically?

No, not generally but it depends on how title was taken as to the bank accounts/ Also illness does not automatically preclude someone from making...

If there is no eminent danger, ignore it. The kids are probably just as disgusted as you. I she actually does become threatening, then you need...

How do I go about getting a divorse in Mexico ?

Why Mexico? California has jurisdiction. Where got married means nothing. Where you live is the deciding fact.

Real estate title and refinancing.

First you don 't need to change title to "married". You might need to only change title to just sole and separate property. His judgment can't be...

Probate questions. Left out of Stepmother's will.I want to contest it?

You can't formally contest unless you file your own objections and a wlll contest petition. I have no idea what your chances are. You have no...

Hire a probate attorney that will take a lien against your share and will seek surcharges to pay for attorney fees.

What is the appropriate course of action when one parent deliberately is withholding the child from the other parent?

This is not a probate matter. The sister MUST file a petition in family law court to get orders for physical and legal custody. If the father has...