What legal action do I take when my inheritance is on someone else’s property ?

Get a probate attorney. Police cant do anything as to enforcement of a Will.

What is the statue of limitations, regarding the executor disbursement of the estate account as the will is written?

STatue of Limitations is on hold as there is a pending probate case.

What shall I do to help resolve verbal claims of interest AFTER a probate is done?

Time to lawyer up as only an attorney in your area of residence can best resolve this under that law.

My father passed away in 2009 and deed in his name with will says to mother and at her passing to 5 kids she didn’t change ?

Both will must go through probate to sort out this problem.

How was the house "left". But what document was this allegedly accomplished. My have to probate the estate.

Is there a way to use a copy of a will to transfer a deed?

Your "friend" may have done some bad things. She needs to hire a probate attorney.

Who's house is it?

Deeds and Wills can be two different things. It comes down to how the deed was worded and what was stated in the Will.

Who becomes executor over property your wife is over?

It all depends on how the Will was drafted and who was stated. If none, then the court will need to appoint the next of kin that has priority.

How to get back SS payments owed to my husband before he died,

You can apply to Social Security for you benefits but you might need to request an accounting of the conservator on this from the court.

Can I submit a class action claim on behalf of my deceased father?

What does owning a house have to do with a class action claim?