The process server served my spouse divorce papers on sept 21 2018. She has not responded to the divorce papers.

30 days from the date of service. Since Oct 21 is a Sunday, then you could file it after close of business on the 22 or the earliest possible time...

What is the cost fora legal separation ?

There are separate costs that need to be looked at here. As to filing fees, it depends on the issues that require the intervention of a court. ...

How does a judge decide who gets the house?

A judge will divide all assets and debts equitably. Talk with a family law attorney. You might also be in a position to receive spousal support.

Haven't filed for divorce yet. Been Seperated for a week. Husband has car thats legally mine. Can i involve the police to help m

If the car was bought during the marraige, then the car is a CP asset regardless of whose name is on title. The police won't do anything unless...

Divorce? Address change

If a divorce is pending, you MUST disclosure this to your ex AND the court.

Can I obtain a divorce without the consent of the other spouse?

You dont' need the other party's agreement to get a divorce. File the divorce and have your spouse legally served. If they don't file a response,...

Am I obligated to release contact information about my child's friends' parents to my ex-spouse's attorney?

I think the attorney is over reaching. Refuse to release this information. But you need your own attorney.

Am I legally entitled to half of the money in our savings account?

If the savings account was opened during the marriage, then it is a CP account. As to transfering half, you can't do thus unless he agrees to this...

The lawyer does not represent you. You got bad advice. File your response and seek your own attorney. If he hired one, you need one also.

Do I have to keep my wife on my health insurance if she has her own?

You cant change the status quo unless you have an agreement with her or an order from the court.