You have a real mess to clean up. Best to bring on a probate attorney.

Need of Filing Final Declarations of Disclosure?

Both of you could file a waiver of the FDD's

Confusing. If you have a Trust, the forget admitting a Will to probate. All you and the other heirs need to do is to come to an agreement on you...

I've been summoned to appear in court. Notice of Family Centered Case Resolution Conference?

Your mediation only covered the child custody/visitation issues. If both you and your wife still want to complete the divorce, then the two of you...

How long do we have to reopen or set aside a divorce case?

I have no idea since the only fact you gave is 1 year. It depends on many other important facts.

How do I obtain permission to become the executor of my parent's estate?

You file a petiiton to be appointed administrator/executor in the state where they resided.

Do I need to clear a date with the judgment debtor before submitting an order for examination?

Hire an attorney to help you. You are going about this incorrectly.

II want to go back to my default divorce since my ex will not cooperate in our settlement what statute would I use?

Not sure what you mean by "default divorce state"? Do mean an actual state? Or do you mean that there is a default pending. If there is no...

Father lives out of state i am his mother i would like all my sons ashes. What do i do?

You will need to get a court order for either of you to take possession of his remains. Girlfriend has no standing on this.

If I sign something under duress with a notary will it hold up in court?

Notarization does not do anything but DON"T sign it unless you first talk to a family law attorney. This does sound like coercion.