Can my attorney also serve as my personal representative?

Another adult here in CA can serve as the personal representative.

Can I ask for rights to property as an #2 executor from the #1 executor? Purchase by assuming?

Again, see previous response to this similar question. Regardless of your care and meaning, that doesn't give you legal standing.

How do I obtain my friends real property from estate as executor #2?

Your duties as executor #2 will not vest until #1 resigns and even then as an executor you don't have the right to buy the property unilaterally. ...

Is a beneficiary entitled to an allowance for compensation for acting as her own attorney int probate matter?

You can't be compensated as an Pro Per for attorney time or time representing yourself. You could be awarded costs but you should have asked for...

What happens if we dont show up to court

Depending on the what kind of a hearing it is, the could either take it off calendar, deny the moving part's request without prejudice or continue...

Your first mistake was using a document preparer to give you legal advice. If the DVRO includes the same parties, yes they are related.

Admissions question - lies! ALL LIES!

Send an additionally requests for documents or create special interrogatories to get clarity. You can also take a deposition. But I suggest that...

What form do I need to use to attach a supplemental declaration with exhibits?

No form. State the exhibits in your declaration and attach them to the declaration. Make sure you also send this to the opposing party/attorney.

I live in CA and am married to a free spending bipolar spouse. How do I protect my finances?

A legal separation will protect your assets and any debts incurred due to his breach of fiduciary duties. Yes you can get a legal separation...

Affidavit of death?

If the line of credit was used to benefit the community, it will likely be a community debt. The affidavit will not clear the credit issue. If...