How do I have my ex-bf, father of my son, pay for all of my needed legal help, attorney fees, in an ongoing Child Custody Case?

Imbedded into your post was the phrase "supervised visitation" Why are you having your visits supervised? That is the most important question here.

How can I get life insurance policies, cemetery certificates that are in my name which were in my deceased Mother bedroom safe

File a petition in probate court to get orders for her to turn them over to you.

Do you have to file for divorce in the same county you have lived married in, or can you file for divorce in A different county.

You can file in Santa Clara county if you have been residing there for at least 3 months prior to filing.

How is a mtg loan deducted from an ABC trust?

You got it wrong. I agree with my colleagues. The loan is secured to the property and NOT the Trust. Whomever inherits the property also...

My ex husband will relinquish his rights to my pension, what paperwork must he sign to do this? It is a Calpers pension...

This can be done through a divorce judgment.

Can I have someone else mail my divorce Summons and Petition along with Prf of service of Summons?

Service by mail isn't appropriate. But you can have someone serve him in the hospital by leaving it with a hospital person. And then you must...

What happens if I can't get the papers served on my wife for adivorce?

Suggest you seek the services of a professional/private process server. They are usually better at this. Wife could be served anywhere and at her...

He's wrong. Period. You have a CP share in the house as well as he does. Unless there is a written agreement in place as to the 70K. then the 70K...

Probate Statutory Attorney Fees?

Fees are set in statute but are also negotiable. But there are also administrator fees that could be paid to the administrator of the estate. As...

The reason for the interspousal transfer deed is ridiculous. There was no need to do this and in effect she did NOT release her community property...