Don't write a letter as this is not a proper way to get what you want. File an RFO to request spousal support and file an FL-150 and all necessary...

I have been assigned to default judgement workshop because my ex has not responded and

Evidently your county has this service that is not available in other counties. If it has been more than 30 days since your ex was served the...

What happens if one spouse wants divorce and the other spouse does not want divorce

There is no requirement in CA that both parties must want the divorce. If one party wants to be divorced, then he/she can get a divorce. The...

I need help filling out the fl 150, fl 300, fl 157 , and fl 158 for attorneys fees. Can someone guide me?

Yes this is possible and it is called limited scope representation. But also check your self-help center at the court house.

Remarried before divorce waiting period

Not to sure what you mean by "divorce waiting period" If you got married before entry of judgment, then your second marriage is invalid. If you...

I had a TRO, he countered with one against me and the judge vacated mine and allowed his. On what grounds can this happen?

You stated no facts so your question can't be answered. Need facts as judges do not make these decisions on a whim.

Continuance for trial?

It appears to be but you need to get your continuance request to the court now rather than the day of trial. Try going in ex-parte to request this.

Money in the account before marriage is separate property?

He will have to prove this by "tracing".

Suggest you go to your court's self help center and they will give the detailed instructions on how to do this properly.

There is a judgement for $97 in spousal support, i heard that this could be changed at the final divorce time. Is that true?

If this is only a temporary order, then at the trial you will need to prove up your claim for spousal support using the 14 factors of Family Code...