This is a probate matter now. Not a family law matter. The divorce should have divided all assets and liabilities so any concept of a liability...

Can I declare my savings account (he is unaware – it’s my ‘prenup’ back up) as separate property?

Interesting. Parties are required to disclose ALL separate and community property claims in a divorce. Additionally if you held out this separte...

Legal separation Divorce I have no idea what my spouse is doing? Help!

If you did NOT file your response with the court, then your spouse can proceed via default but they must first file a Request For Default and then...

If the money was community property and not separate property, then you might have a problem on this. It sounds very much like an attempt to...

Her reason is wrong and you are definitely stymied. Unless you are a person with complicated assets this divorce shouldn't have taken 7 years. ...

The legal answer is that even if there is a bifurcation on status only, your boyfriend will still need to continue the "status quo" as to health...

What what kind of lawyer do I need?

Please go back and re post this using grammar and punctuation. I can't make heads or tails of what you are asking.

As to what needs to be done - actually - hire a competent attorney. This is really not a DIY legal project. That is the best help and advice that...

No it is not and especially if those funds are available to you. You have more funds available then 95% of those who file for divorce.

What to do about trust?

Ok. There is alot to this that isn't posted in your brief description that is needed in order to make the best decision. You REALLY need to find...