How do I divorce him? Does he have to sign the divorce papers?

Not easy but you can get it done. He will need a court appointed guardian ad litem. You still have fiduciary powers as to the community...

If matter is Probate then what is the code that applies?

This is a matter for the probate court to decide. Get a probate attorney that also understands and has experience in the area of family law.

What is your opinion regarding her handling of the RV?

Sorry about this. But if you can sell it and get more money then letting it be repossessed, that is what you need to do. As to you husband...

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What should I do?

You will be able to get orders on the recovery of these funds in a divorce proceeding or the court will award you other assets to offset the money...

If you aren't represented by an attorney, by all means you must attend. Failure to attend would mean that you risk the possibility of having the...

Will I be taxed on the joint bank account balances my Aunt & I share after she passes away? Will the accounts go thru probate

Taxation as to your tax liability depends on the amount of funds you receive. Your aunt would be best served by having a Revocable Trust executed....

Can I argue that he commingled his inheritance monies and now claim the money in the savings account as community property?

"Argue" is not the same as "evidence". He has the burden of proof in this.

What is an average retainer fee? what is the average overall cost of a divorce?

Retainers very depending on the issues, the value of the community estate and the experience of the attorney.

What is my next step in divorce proceedings to protect my and my child's interest?

File a RFO here in CA for custody, visitation and child support.

Am I a putative spouse?

Do you have any witnesses to the marriage? They would be your evidence. Hire a family law attorney to help you.