Is it unreasonable to think that the judge will modify visitation to allow me to pick up my son after a court hearing?

I concur with my colleague. Best of luck.

My ex said she wants to work out of the country and take our kids. How could I stop her?

She would need to file her Request for Orders which you can oppose.

What type of Lawyer should I use for a divorce?

Divorce/family lawyer. Best of luck.

My kids are refusing to go for summer visitation. What happens if they physically refuse to leave with him.

It is best to encourage the children to go. Your ex could request they go, but I don't see throwing them over his shoulder as beneficial.

How do i get my cousin's son out of foster care and with me.

I concur with my colleague. Best place to start is with a dependency law attorney.

How do I stop my ex from taking the kids out of the country

Ask the court to be the safe keeper of their passports.

Be careful who you use as you may not be dealing with an actual attorney.

Emergency Custody modification

File your ex parte it will likely be granted for such egregious action as this. What a schmuck.

Certainly makes sense to me. When it comes to issues such as dividing a business and determining permanent support, it is best to hire an...

Can I change my spouse petition from divorce to legal separation?

You can't change the Petition. However, he can amend his own petition.