I agree with my colleague. Invest some money in your case and your children and hire an experienced family law attorney.

How does the courts in California define " Alienation" from one of the parents as a result from actions by the other parent?

That is your issue. You need an order and you need to enforce your order.

Can I do anything about calls to the police about my childs welfare from my ex?

I concur with my colleagues. Might as well buy some donuts and coffee for them when they come out.

What from do I file in step 2 of the divorce process if I was only married for 1 month

I concur with my colleague. Assuming your spouse will sign, Summary Dissolution is the way to go.

Directing fees, residuals, and profits - for 3 years and 6 months.

I concur with my colleague. Your question is ambiguous.

Can someone access my phones messages if the phone was in my daughters possession at their house without my knowledge?

Yep, some people still leave materials on their phone thinking they are safe. Never a good idea.

When some one records you on there phone or tablet in your house is it illegal?

If you are aware that you are being recorded: no. Unaware: yes.

Can a non custodial parent legally take a child when the custodial parent dies

By operation of law, when one parent dies, child goes to other parent.

How can my significant other's divorce be sped up ?

Hire an experienced family law attorney and get it done.

Ho do I change jurisdiction and governing venue from CA to CO, the state I live?

I concur with my colleague. State the reasons for your request to change venue.