Can I get part of property in divorce?

I concur with my colleague. Get your documentation together and show to an experienced family law attorney.

Divorce and my home

Worse case scenario is that he would be entitled to a portion of the principal payments made on the mortgage during the marriage.

What form do I need to change the venue of my custody and child support case from Oregon to California?

I concur with my colleague. You would need to file your motion on Oregon to get the case transferred.

My child is 12 can he decide with what parent he wants to live?

Children don't get to decide where they live. They can express a preference only.

Family disability Payment center family disability module 36?

Do a google search. Not a family law question that I am aware of.

Can they remove our kids because of a no contact order from a DCFS case that was closed back in 2015 ?

I would certainly discuss these facts with your attorney. Best of luck.

Who can get custody of my son?

Family Code 3011 will be informative. If you are the stay at home parent, it seems likely (for now), that this schedule would continue.

Move aways require the attention of experienced family law attorneys.

Father in fire camp prison wants to make sure his wife doesn't move out of state with his daughter. How do we stop that?

I concur with my colleague. Time to hire an experienced family law attorney.

How do I prevent my son's father from extending the bogus two year DV restraining order on me (his mom). ?

Sounds like you need an experienced attorney to provide you with expert guidance.